I ended up leaving there and moving to another Insurance Company and again a very sociable lifestyle but there wasn’t such as strong sense of class systems and we were a young group who would go out and socialise after work and they were good days and fun times. We were all very sociable but all had clear boundaries and relationships outside of the office and everyone was either married or partners except maybe myself and few others. I recall going out one day after work and having lots of laughs and banter and one of the men in the office who was married offered to give me a life home one night and I accepted as we were good friends and I trusted him. At some stage I can recall us being in a lift and going to the car and he asked me for oral sex which I promptly laughed and thought he was joking and I dismissed and didn’t think anything more of it but obviously rejected my advances.
I didn’t think any more of it but had noted that he demeanour toward me had changed but I didn’t think that it related to that event and things became more clearer when I was called into the bosses office and advised that one of the Insurance Agents had made a complaint about me and my phone manner and that I wasn’t very helpful. I was shocked by this statement and was unprepared for what was developing but I had asked who had made the complaint and he gave me the name of the Insurance Agent that I declined sex with the previous week. I was furious and told the boss of the incident and he declined to discuss further but was summoned into one of the female bosses who told me very clearly that I was being targeted because I had refused his sexual advances but if I repeated what she had said she would adamantly deny. I walked out that day and never went back.
